Abusive narcissists all sound the same.
They use condescension, name calling, fits of rage, insults to intelligence, and more to emotionally beat down their spouses. Some of them don’t even have to get physical — they inflict maximum damage through their words of contempt and utter disrespect. And they ALWAYS think that they are in the right and that they’re doing their spouses a favor by pointing out their “faults.”
If your spouse abuses you like this, please try to find a way to get out. If you have kids, you are not doing them any favors by trying to preserve the marriage.
And a tip against abusive narcissists: They try to project this image of superiority, strength, and complete control to dominate their spouses. But as hard as it may be to resist, don’t buy into it. It’s all just a facade because the last thing they want is for the rest of the world to know who they really are and how they treat their family behind closed doors. You can leverage that insecurity to find a way out.