The 7 Ways Some Muslim Men Contribute to Immodesty from Muslim Women

Note: This was originally posted on Facebook, but Facebook deemed it “hate speech” and deleted it. What is hateful about the below? This is how corporate giants in the West are censoring all aspects of Islam that do not conform to their strict atheistic moral doctrines.

A big part of the responsibility for modesty from some Muslim women falls on Muslim men. Not all of the responsibility, but a big part of it.

Some Muslim men are largely to blame because:

1. They don’t require modesty from their own wives, daughters, and sisters. They just don’t seem to care if their female family members are behaving and dressing modestly or not. These men are like donkeys.

2. They mix freely with women, Muslim and non-Muslim women. What message does this send to Muslim women? If men want to be leaders and true guardians, as Islam requires them to be, they have to lead by example.

3. Some Muslim men take on a white knight role by praising immodest women and immodest actions. Some white knights even go so far as sharing dolled up pictures of Muslim women publicly on the bogus excuse of “empowering the sisters,” or some other white knight nonsense. This normalizes the idea of putting Muslim women in full public display in a way that contradicts Islamic standards of modesty and signals to other Muslim women that it’s ok to make your image as publicly visible as possible.

4. Some Muslim men act completely inappropriately online by flirting or making suggestive remarks or “sliding into dm’s” or even passing around pictures of Muslim women privately. I am not saying that the women who put these glamour pictures online don’t share the blame, but, again, Muslim men have to lead by example by not consuming the pictures and not giving those women the attention they crave.

5. They speak inappropriately about Muslim women privately and sometimes even publicly (cat calling). There is no excuse for disgusting language like this. Would you want other men to talk about your sister or daughter like that? How can you expect Muslim women to act modestly if you’re talking about them in lewd and sexually explicit ways? That’s not how believers behave.

6. Beyond just mixing, they befriend non-mahram women! Men and women cannot be “just friends.” There are so many problems that arise from this behavior beyond the fact that it is completely un islamic. If you want a best friend of the opposite sex, get married. Otherwise, stop participating in what you wrongly think is “innocent.” Zina has become a big problem for some of these more liberal Muslim communities and it all started because thinking casual mixing was perfectly innocent. Men are the ones who need to lay down the law.

7. Some Muslim men drop modesty standards and express great support for “women’s liberation” because they enjoy access to women themselves or they are engaged in haram behavior themselves and feel hypocritical for advocating Islamic modesty. So rather than stop engaging in haram, they resolve the tension by dropping the modesty standards. There are examples of men who fell into zina and then suddenly they are advocating “women’s choice” and “no man can tell a woman what to wear,” and all kinds of other feminist garbage. [NB: I’m not saying that those who advocate these things are secretly guilty of zina.]

Let me be clear here. Feminists criticize Muslim men for not being liberal and secular enough. That is obviously invalid and we have to fight that feminist (and white knight) narrative. But we should criticize Muslim men if they are not living up to true Islamic standards.

And again, I am not saying men are solely at fault for the immodest behavior of some Muslim women. Those women are contributing to the problem. And clearly, the cultural power of the West has a huge impact, but we have to do our part to mitigate its influence. Everyone will be judged for their actions: Women for not dressing and behaving properly will have to answer but their men folk will also be asked about doing their part in supporting them and empowering true modesty and Islamic behavior while also dressing, acting, and speaking modestly themselves.

May Allah strengthen us all.

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13 COMMENTS

  1. “Note: This was originally posted on Facebook, but Facebook deemed it “hate speech” and deleted it. What is hateful about the below?”

    Did you try contacting the moderation team or customer service for it? This is not hate speech, even remotely. I have seen calls to eliminate all “Mozlems” on Facebook. I’m not too sure how it works anymore, but in the past, they’d only remove content that was complained against without investigating it any further. At least until 2016 YouTube still removed videos based on viewer complains and would investigate the actual content only after you’d take it up on it.

  2. Its very generalized, but most of western Muslim men are non-pork eater Muslim. Everything else, is quite alright, and in practice even at home. Their introduction is, “I’m Muslim, but open for everything.”

  3. The cringiest is when you have Muslim couples posting their “romantic” selfies, where the wife is dressed provocative despite covering (full-on makeup and tight clothes). The guy or husband is too dumb to even understand that other men are looking at his wife. Brothers! Your wife’s beauty is ONLY for you. Not for some random dude on Facebook and Instagram.

    • Such people have no haya. This bizarre trend(maybe I’m very old & don’t pay attention) of Muslims in wedding snaps all completely loved up looking in full regalia & makeup for THE WHOLE WORLD to see. What do they even gain by posting such in your face flaunting displays? Narcissists, the whole lot!

    • Even if they are dressed properly they are not supposed to post their private videos for the public to see and lust upon. This should have perhaps been the 8th point on Daniel’s article. And we all know what happened with the celebrated RAQI couples from UK

  4. Asa brother.

    Sorry to bother you and I apologize for asking a question that isn’t on the topic of this article.

    I recently learned that some vaccines are made using fetal tissue of aborted babies.

    One example is the chicken pox vaccine.
    I’m told that old cells from many years ago are being used but I still find this unsettling.

    I tried looking this up to see what our scholars say about this but I was unable to find much scholarship on this issue.

    Could you please let me know your opinion on this issue.

    Thank you.

    • read the book MILLERS REVIEW OF CRITICAL VACCINE STUDIES..You will be shocked..Its the MMR vaccine n many others that use fetal tissues n pork etc..n yes thats right..a silent genocidal agenda ..kill them mentally spiritually an physically slowly n gradually..
      There is a site..stopmndatoryvaccines..go browse it..If u r sincere in ur research..sky is the limit..then pray to Allah for guidance..

  5. The problem starts with men who don’t know how to be proper fathers. These men think setting standards is somehow oppressive or they want to be friends rather than fathers to their daughters. This is the uncle with a beautifully maintained sunnah beard and daughters that don’t wear hidjaab.

    A relatively new type of dayooth is the husband that makes Youtube videos with his wife. Displaying the –
    – future – mother of his children in front of the whole world to see. These are the guys that make prank videos or “how we met” videos. Once the channel takes of and money is being made the wife’s ‘hidjaab’ becomes smaller and smaller – the end stage is either a type of durag, turban or complete uncovering. Some of these dayooths even go so far by making videos – with their wives – with sexual content – “….wedding night”.

  6. Yes brother Daniel, i agree with u..
    Dayuth men devoid of ghairah are a big prob
    They hold no bars for their wives so that they can have access to others’ wives..Sick ppl man n then they call themselves liberals…

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    ‘You have to give her the drink near to where you want to have sex with her. If she passes out and you’ve got to carry her then people will get suspicious,’ expresses Kevin. This makes perfect sense if you concentrate on it. So bars are no good. ladies get drugged in bars, But only by beginners. A friend of mine was found after one drink hunting for her earring in a urinal while it was still on her ear. But she was scooped up by a friend without unpleasant incident.

    This could not have happened with Kevin, Who has spent years along with his mates strategizing, Drugging and raping regarding women. within six and ten girls a month over a six year period.

    the trouble is even now he can’t disguise his pride. It dribbles out of his lips as he informs me where, whenever, the total. He’s 27 yrs. old and says to have been ‘transformed’ for six years. ‘I’m friends now with one of the girls we did those actions to,’ predicts Kevin, Who rarely says the word ‘sex’ instead of the word ‘rape’. He speaks about his career as a serial drugging rapist as a phase in his life that he’s created. A phase in her life. Some guys took harmful drugs, But him and his four friends dished drugs out and then raped any girl.

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    reform a Rapist

    A woman told me in disbelief that she didn’t understand why you would have sex with someone while they were unconscious, It couldn’t be fun. ‘The sex is not about leisure. not even,’ alleges Kevin, possessing a mulling tone. ‘It’s about recently,’ he tells.

    Kevin, any time you speak to him, Sounds neither intimidating nor remorseful. He’s pragmatic it’s the social of men, He keeps claiming, In his safeguards. He had an abusive step dad and were raised in a poor area. right now, He went university. ‘Everyone has various experience growing up,’ he says.

    His particular connection with growing up involved ‘more girls than I can count’. He and his friends were going for the numbers. When I ask him if he’s been tempted to return to his old life since quitting he has a girlfriend and plans to have a family he says no. When I ask him if he’s thinking about the hundreds of husbands, Brothers and fathers that you can surely be heroes if they managed to castrate him, He goes on unperturbed. ‘I don’t worry, But it does make me think that we now have repercussions for your actions,’ he says. similar to jail, acceptable? in-organic castration? the electric chair? totally, no matter how gruesome his upbringing, Or how smashed his home was, Drugging and raping countless women deserves punishment? there isn’t really case unless the victim presses charges.

    Without the signed affidavit of the victim there’s no case and this becomes Loch Ness Monster rare when managing drink spiking case, your victim often believes the incident to be her fault. I met Kevin by using a contact. They imposed a strict agreement of privacy, So I could never meet Kevin face-to-face, But only speak to him on the htc desire. These men do not necessarily change in jail and that a safe counseling place is the best way to transform them.

    Mfalapitsa works at gifts for chinese woman treatment with prisoners and free men all the same. It’s called restorative healing justice: It’s every bleeding heart liberal’s dream of how the machine should work don’t punish, But curative. At least this is the dinner party theory, Until it will affect your daughter. notwithstanding, If a victim does come forward, The organization will help to make sure the rapist is convicted. They will sweat over extending his sentence and keeping the police involved. So there is a contradiction between outdated prison time and restorative justice. mainly though, They help rehabilitate men like Kevin so they can have proper and family relationships.

    ‘If they relapse after paying heed to us and commit a fresh crime then we’ll call the police,’ Mfalapitsa says but what is in the previous is left there.

    Is your girlfriend a Target?

    Kevin is 19 years old and using a parked car with his four best mates. They’re conversing, delaying, headache. One of them had met a married Christian girl not too long ago. ‘One day your Jesus could well be away,’ he jokes upon backseat. Tonight her Jesus and husband are both away narrow models look great they’re parked outside her house.

    The girl comes out she’s luring (The first criterion) And she’d shunned one of the guys the prior day (Second consideration). Kevin leans from car and asks her to a party. He names a few of her friends and says will have them there. since the girl arrives her friends are absent. She swallows a glass of punch and waits. Her friends will never arrive and her life will never be the same again.

    Kevin fully admits that drugging a girl is completely different from plying her with 10 tequilas in a club. You couldn’t serve enough alcohol to get someone into identically state. ‘If she was at a house we’d make certain that she wanted to lie down. access a couch. We’d let her know that if she let us have sex with her then she’d be fine,’ he admits that, But by that stage she would not be able to move either way. He never sourced or bought drug treatments his friends did he just knew that it took two white pills to put a girl to sleep.

    your choices, despite, For a drink spiker, Are considerable. ‘They will use eye drops,’ tells how Mfalapitsa. If mixed with an alcoholic drink it augments the issue, Makes a girl dizzy and gives her unconscious spasms. In reality the best chance of a spiker being caught is if the substance he’s using is illegal and he has enough in his possession to be described as a dealer. this is not possible with eye drops. ‘Brake fluid within the car, If smeared around the lining of glass will leave her comatose,’ alleges Mfalapitsa. Horse sterilization medicine could be used if you have such connections this may be powerful enough to wipe her memory entirely, for as much as 12 hours before she sipped it. On occasion it could leave her permanently sterile.

    But Kevin never got active in the technical side. ‘I would definitely show her that I was a man. That you pee seated and I pee standing up, you understand?’ he states, just like an old jock re living his glory days. If they saw a victim out and about at a later date, They’d feel warm and fuzzy knowing that they’d been with her possibly without her even knowing. If she was with a brand new guy it would get better, Then they could yell out that she

    Was weak and mock the guy she was via. Kevin and his boys wanted to own every woman you can buy. With little prompting he starts to flip through his memories of girls like a Rolodex.

    ‘Poor girls would be easy whilst in drug them. You could just buy them some moisturizer in it as a present. It was the middle class girls we were after, the ones who thought they were better than us,’ he says. Mfalapitsa tells me that it’s all self-belief issues, That guys like this have no confidence in having sex with a girl in a consensual (or legal) approach, But they still need the affirmations.

    The victim would wake up back with her clothes slipped back on her body, Be told that she’d fallen asleep and so she would shuffle home on her own. ‘Meeting her in the morning wouldn’t be easy,’ reveals Kevin, Who takes note of several occasions when he’d bump into

    A victim on the street. There’d be something of how much she could remember. If a memory of the previous night was poking through, Would she be rest assured enough to tell anyone?

    Make Peace basic Guilt

    When pushed for leads to, Kevin doesn’t talk about the allure of women or even a sexual drive he related to his mates, How they weren’t shy to be naked around each other and that the bond was strong because they were ‘protecting each other’s secret’. The theory was if you did this then you’d get caught. This shows that they comprehended, Through all that gruesome childhood, That what they were doing was wrong.

    The only people conscious during most of Kevin’s sex life are generally his male friends, Queuing up behind him like frenzied monkeys. He pulls out the explanation of ‘peer pressure’ and that he wanted to quit, As if he was a drug abuser. His neighbours were angry and so he persisted, Not planning to show a sign of weakness ‘because men don’t do that’. Kevin, Who has broken contact with his mates, is stuffed with the pressures of what it means to be a man. ‘Male weakness’, ‘peer pressure’ and ‘the wrong crowd’ are the phrases of a man that’s been through the therapy mill.

    There are support groups for men like Kevin in much exactly as networks exist to help men whose wives have been raped, they’re groups for men who’ve raped plenty of women. They sit and discuss what they may of done. ‘I was going to have peace so I started talking. And I can only examine it now because I’ve got peace,’ Kevin claims.

    The organizations don’t often encourage the rapists to turn themselves over to the police, Although Kevin went to speak with a girl in 2005 to eke out a little redemption. The girl he greeted was angry. She had been drugged and raped again by a different band of cronies lots of years later. She was convinced that she had been born to fulfill this role of a victim ever. ‘It took a lot of courage will approach her,’ Kevin promises. It’s usually when these guys make the link between their own sisters or mothers and the women they’ve hurt that the guilt seeps through. There’s a realization that this could happen to a woman they love. any that, Or they get trasmitted.

    Kevin didn’t stop spiking drinks from a killer guilt, But a mistake in the dosage. A girl nearly the same as any other trudged back home (this is where Kevin was 20) And was met by her parents while she was still groggy with prescription. Fathers were covered (the and hers), But charges were unable pressed. Kevin was kicked out of home and sent university so he lost touch with his mates. Lost a taste for his life, Grew out of it and moved on to women who stay awake during sexual intercourse, With no other men in the room.

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